Don’t pray for a different problem act differently to the same problems and life will change. Believe me, God has been kind to you, you just have rough roads and some bristle in your feet,  many people don’t have the privilege of walking even once in life.

Today’s most widespread problem that youths face is breakups, no second thought that coping up with broken heart gives you real bad time may be the darkest hours of your life. The main reason you end up doing bad in the final semester is not only because you had broken up and were not able to concentrate, indeed it’s true but partially. It’s mostly because you didn’t handle the situation well. I am not saying that it’s easy to see the love of your life walk away from you, the ache in the heart is far beyond words can express, it’s the time nothing seems right but we should always remember where to draw the line. Many of us are diseased by “Denial”, when the mind doesn’t want to accept few facts that are too scarring to be true, it simply denies. Well, who says don’t apply this when thinking about the population rate of the world, comparing present data we have multiplied to such an extent that can cause an end to our kind, it’s a normal phenomenon, or try it when you get the news of ozone layer depletion or a better one how about melting of icebergs that can lead to earth turning into heaven for aquatic flora and fauna exclusively, turning of earth into aquarium thought may be justified, so applying the concept of denial is genuine but why in heartbreaks.

No run but FUN way to get over a breakup, try once,

After breakup the first thing that comes in mind is to get drunk, if you feel an impulse to get drunk don’t drink alone, call some friends in short-throw breakup parties and when I say parties please mind my words its parties, Also it helps to avoid the intentional or unintentional drunk texting, as you have a company that can distract you and if nothing can take away your mobile and prevent the blunder that you regret when sober.

Spending a lot of time outside really works don’t lock yourself in a room, don’t be afraid of being judged no one is walking in your shoes. Try rebounding with your crushes if any or just simply flirt, this one is from personal experience the more you flirt the better you feel but make sure the person on the other end does not feel offended don’t be cheap be fun.

If you want to start dating go ahead, but take things slow don’t rush into a relationship to come out from the last one, as it helps in nothing but an increasing number of your kind of people I mean a broken heart. As well as an increase in the number of arranged marriages, though I am not against arranged marriage I don’t support it when it is a compromise, better it be a choice, not the only option.

There is time when you don’t want to discuss but you have knitted a lot in yourself and you need to take it out, there are times you feel he/she should know what he/she has done to you, but please don’t give him the privilege to see you suffering, start writing diaries pour your heart out on a paper and dispose of it, Do remember the golden rule never ever read it again.

And here comes the second most stupid thing we do, never ever update broken heart status on social media, trust me later you will feel embarrassed anyway.

Stop socializing with his friends and please stop explaining people what went wrong or whose fault it was, even at some point you feel it’s you just let it go, the ship has already sailed and there is nothing you can do about it, Think once even if he comes back somehow, things won’t be same or better but, worse than ever it’s no fiction and she/he is no hero.

Take a break from monotonous life if you feel so, go on a short or long holiday as per your choice don’t overspend that you may regret later, do only things you want to not by someone influence.

This one is my personal best try remembering your most fascinating dream of childhood, something that you always wanted to do, now please don’t Google for admission form and the last date to apply for Hogwarts school of witchcraft and wizardry, as I wanted to study with harry potter in Hogwarts, be fun but realistic at the same time.

Don’t overreact when such topics are discussed in general, try to communicate never take things personally, it is the phase of life that one feels all the fingers are pointing towards him/her.

And lastly, never try to befriend that person again in my opinion life is full uncertainties, if he is meant to be your friend, he will be one day won’t make attempts for the same. Never try to keep yourself updated about his life the less you know the better for you.

Regardless of being a girl or a boy, we all have  had broken heart at one or another point of life, deal with it, don’t run he/she is not the last person on earth and hypothetically thinking if he/she is , it’s not worth it. Life is like a party where you are the guest and host also, be treated the way you want. No one knows better than you, what you deserve, it’s no one else but your choice that how you want to live your life, so always if feel lost, try to scheme to get back yourself not  him.