The most powerful emotion is not being loved albeit being hated. There is a great saying “Love can move mountains” but that happens typically sometimes but a more generic case is of hatred. As hatred cannot only move mountains but also drain oceans out of life. Although I agree Hatred is a powerful weapon but always remember its a two-sided sword. Hatred not only hurts the person its aimed at but also can consume the one who carries it.
We have been introduced the word hatred in our life with one and only one perspective and that is negative and yes very innocently one can think – what good can be achieved from hatred?
Well, I have answer to this question. A hell lot of good can be achieved from hatred. This world consists of people who give a legitimate reason to hate them. Only if there were laws to hold people accountable for the mean actions that they do not repent and if given a chance they will cross another milestone to prove them-self the dumb fuck they are, yes we would have been able to justify it more perfectly. Hatred is in everything if you see and nowhere if you just use the beautiful art camouflaging the emotions you have. Hatred can vary in degree and hence the milder version of hatred is not seen as hatred but as the powerful factors that lead us to the ultimate emotion hatred such as Jealousy, Annoyance, desperateness, and so on.
the man did achieve the zenith to achieve something out of this powerful weapon we all have. but only for misuse. Hence that the impression it leaves to world. But do you understand if hatred can harness havoc cause of its misuse, what greatness can be achieved if utilized it for the right reasons? Hence hate the right things. And the infinite loop begins from this moment onward. Anything with an adjective as right will always be subjective and biased. hence this is the fine-line we need to draw and choose to hate the real enemy. We will definitely have some causalities but so what even love has collateral damages why the case for hatred is taken so differently.
So before I really answer the first question that what good can be achieved by hatred.
I want to answer, what is Emotion? – Emotion is a strong feeling that finds expression in the body. Expression in the body here refers to responsive action we take in order to express a feeling that has aroused in us due to any external/internal factor.
With time many emotions fade away and that does include love. It might not just vanish but will eventually become either less interesting and hence many of us take so many measures to keep life interesting. Hatred, on the other hand, needs no motivation from outside once it’s born in your mind. And the two key things to remember are – First, Once hatred born in your mind its for always and forever, unconsciously your decision and actions will get affected, even without knowing it. – Human has denial tendency as they want to see them-self THE RIGHTEOUS PERSON- well that something I will discuss in different article altogether. The second and most spine chilling reality about hatred is it is self-motivated. It doesn’t need much motivation from outside once this emotion finds an impression in the body and mind. Hatred can be passed from one to another. This continues to be the case for some until the original reason as to why it began in the first place becomes lost in the annals of time. This is the only thing that will be with you till the end of your life. And yes they can get suppressed if some mitigating actions are taken but can never be eradicated from the root. Only an act of classy revenge can help you get this emotion to fall in lower degrees of feelings also called pity and disgust.
This is a story of how hatred helped me bring best in me. I hate the average me. I can’t stand being average at work and hence I hated the below standard work I delivered in past but I did overcome that average band by the power of hatred. I hated it so much that I found ways to overcome and I don’t need any motivation anymore cause I don’t lack the Hatred of doing average. And instead of putting my energy into whining and getting depressed. I hated a few things so strong – I am proud to say – I came out a shining star. I don’t lack the motivation a day at work to outperform. it took me ages to understand what really happened with me as it was all-natural and nothing planned. So to confirm the above-stated fact, I analyzed all the things that shouldn’t be part of my life and slowly I tried hating it, its really easy, far easier than love ever will be at least for me. The result of that deep planted hatred did wonders for me. I got rid of deep-rooted bad habits. This strategy just gets be finer like a bottle of wine each day and believe me it is not self-obsession that I feel this way but its indifference I don’t care what you think post-reading it.
An easier way to figure out what to hate is – think of a person you really want to live with, and then compare all your features with it. If the reply to any habit/nature is no then hate it and free yourself from it. hatred sometimes stops you from thinking logically, realistically, and kindly. The only way out is never let anger feed your hatred but solid rational reasons.
Although few people have attained the final so-called NIRVANA state that what I call as indifference but I know it as a fact that the path of this destination has to go through hatred and hatred in itself is a very tedious journey. For some its a journey of a lifetime. For few lucky ones who were able to put correct actions and drive their hatred correctly not only achieved what will be the best revenge and that is indifference but also evolved into something that is very commonly used but found rare and it is – living. Yes, you read it right, you finally start living that you haven’t done since crossing your childhood.
And this is how hatred is worth it. It helps you start to live again. Live with your standards and not others and this is what indifference brings into you. The destination of one’s life is always death but how can you really die, if you never lived. What meaning your death will have if you stopped living long back, it will just be a formality and nothing more. Live at least once it’s worth dying for!